Today was one of those crazy, crazy mornings. As I worked with Bethany on her reading, she was struggling with the /i/ sound. We had to work and work on it. Meanwhile, Madison who can sometimes struggle with perfectionism was upset over her inability to do long multiplication. She just started that today, with Math-U-See but she didn't understand the lesson. Jedidiah is loud as he is cutting many teeth, which means even when he is happy he is loud. I notice his diaper needs changed and he is on his way to the pantry to put my car keys in the 50 lb bag of flour. (Boy am I glad I caught that before he was succesful). I am in the process of making bread because we are completely out and it has to get done today.
During the midst of this I know that my daughters need me. They need me to teach them. Madison is upset because she needs help and she is independent. Bethany is upset because she is five and cute and used to things being easy. This isn't easy so she is frustrated. I explain to Madison that this is my job. I am the teacher and I am here to help her whenever she is stuck. Her tears cleared up, I asked her to give me a few minutes to get the other situations under control and then I would give her my undivided attention. She said okay but I could tell she wasn't happy to have to wait. I explained to her that I could keep working with her, while her brother was troubled over his diaper, Bethany was asking for help repeatedly, the bread was making noise in the mixer and Eliora needed direction to keep her busy, or she could give me a few minutes while she worked on something different and I would help her momentarily. She smiled and said she would wait.
I addressed all the pressing concerns. Madison and I spent time on her Math. She got it!!! And I got to teach her patience, love, prioritizing, Math, and that we aren't always perfect all the time.
What I got in return was to, grow in my patience, to once again be reminded that stressful times will pass, to learn to lean on my savior even more, see my daughter grow, get her new math concept and a note to the teacher.
Thank you very much for helping me get a better grade,
Yours truly,
-Madison-
I feel like the most blessed woman on earth sometimes. And this is just one thing I love about my life and homeschooling.
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You are such a busy girl. :) You amaze me! I can only imagine how rewarding it is. I'm glad that school is going well. I miss you all so very much and love you bunches! Give everyone a squeeze for me. Your sis, D
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